morning, my mum sent me a photo message showing my poorly eight year old nephew
clutching a well-worn soft toy in the shape of a panda. Pandan, my nephew used to call him, and for
years he was never far from his side. I
was always extremely thrilled by how much Joe loved Pandan as I had bought the
toy for him (although it is perhaps more accurate to say that I collected
tokens from the packets of a well-known brand of toilet paper and sent them off
with £1.99 for postage and packaging).
Now Joe is
almost nine, I hadn’t seen Pandan around for a while. It was so heart-warming to discover that he
continued treasured him and still drew comfort from his frankly manky and
slightly discoloured fur. It’s funny
which toys find a place deep in our heart and which remain simply
to my mum’s message saying that maybe Joe will put Pandan in a future toy-box
too, a joking reference to the toy-box that I have recently created. Over the last few weeks, I have been boring
friends and family talking about my new toy-box (okay, so talking and making them look at it).
(pictured above) is one of my latest mini-obsessions. I love it almost as much as I love some of
its contents. I had thought about
putting something like it together shortly after moving into my new home in
mid-April, having realised that we live in possibly the most un-child friendly
space ever (think lots of potentially dangerous items at low levels and little
to distract curious small people with).
Whilst we don’t have kids of our own, I want visiting children to be at
home here and want their parents to feel relaxed rather than nervous or
afternoon, I read an Apartment Therapy post that mentioned the same toy-box
idea and that was that: I seized the moment and tore round the place gathering
up any suitable items. Some pencils,
plastic cups, a few children’s books that happened to be in unpacked
boxes. I had a large basket just right
for the job. I even remembered the two
hand-knitted rabbits, one of whom featured in my first day at school
photograph, suffocating in a plastic box under the bed.
weeks since, more bits have been added.
I picked up a colouring book from a coffee morning. My boyfriend put in his childhood chess set. I’m keeping my eye out for suitable bits
(please someone somewhere get rid of some Lego!) but most of all I’m
encouraging my mum to get up the loft and find more of my actual toys out. I’ve already begun bringing things from my
parents’ when I visit, including the first book I ever remember, yet I know
there is more still in the attic.
all these possessions that I’ve never been sure what to do with have had a new
lease of life. This sense of repurposing
has bought me genuine joy and contentment.
Lots of the standard advice on sentimental items or such like instructs
you to have a clearout, perhaps taking a photograph as a reminder of a
once-prized object. But is that really
what we always want? Whilst drowning in
reminders of the past can stop us from getting on with life in the present,
surely we can find ways to forge a new path where we give space to honour our
earlier treasures and let the happiness that they bought us then infuse our
what I feel my new toy-box does. It is
my own way through. It isn’t getting rid
of everything, although there will be much from my childhood that I won’t
keep. Nor is it shoving it all in some
place out of sight (under the bed, the loft, a spare bedroom – preferably in
someone else’s house), hoping to never have to deal with it but also never
getting any pleasure from it. Seeing
another child being entertained by toys that you also happily played with is a
it doesn’t have to be a toy-box. This sense
of repurposing can be applied to other possessions too. What item in your home (or left elsewhere!)
is languishing? What stuff aren’t you
sure what to do with? Is it something
that you can breathe new life into in some form or another?
If you like
the idea of upcycling then Pinterest is full of amazing ideas to give you
inspiration; I’ve made a board with some of my favourite ideas. Not that you have to be artistic or crafty;
if you love reading, can you simply spare some shelf space to your favourite
It may be
that you decide repurposing actually does involve giving something a new home
or to a new owner. I used to have a
gorgeous ragdoll that an older cousin made for me when I was born; when she had
a daughter, I passed the doll on to her.
Or do you
need to rethink in a broader way? Is
there a different way of looking at the item(s)? It may be that a mental shift is more useful
than a physical transformation. Old toys
were literally just old toys until I recognised that they still held their
magic for a three year old today just as much as they had for me thirty years
repurposing below or via Instagram, Twitter, Pinterest or the A Life Of One’s Own Facebook
page. If you are finding it difficult to
think differently about a possession and would like some help exploring options
then get in touch too – as a coach, offering a different perspective is part of
what I do! Again there is social media
or you can email me (firstname.lastname@example.org). I’d love to hear your repurposing stories.