Are you still spotting the signs of autumn that we looked
out for in Week One? It’s pretty hard to
not notice, whether it’s the pleasant stuff such as pavements strewn with
conker shells and acorns or the less pleasing aspects like the encroaching dark
nights. Nature and the changing seasons
throw it all at us, often at the same time: things we think of as positive and
those we label as negative. We can’t
have one without the other. Those
gorgeous crisp starry nights also mean cold and frosty mornings. There is the riot of glorious technicolour as
the leaves turn and then fall. And on my
word, how good are they at the minute?
Talk about going down in a blaze of glory. Some trees are so beautiful at the minute
that remembering to breathe – or keep my eyes on the road as I drive past – is difficult. This spectacle is soon is followed by the
sludgy mulch of decaying foliage on the paths, treacherous and icky – and if
you live in the UK, also the cause of annual ‘leaves on the line’ train travel
disruption (really this is a thing in Britain.
I’m not kidding). Then the trees
stand bare and brown through the dark cold months when we would welcome a blast
of colour and joy.
This is the paradox of nature. Life and death intertwined…and inevitable. The two ultimate opposites, coexistent and
concurrent. Life and death are constant
themes in nature but never are they more visible to us than at this time of
year, when the trees, fields and hedgerows offer us their bounty and their
beauty for a fleeting moment before apparent dormancy takes hold. In a few weeks, it will be hard to imagine
the lushness of autumn was ever with us.
At times it may even seem hard to believe, to trust, that life will ever
We can’t cling on to all that we are enjoying about the
season right now any more than we can turn the world on its axis to avoid
darker nights and colder days. Wishing
it were otherwise can be tempting but is ultimately frustrating and certainly
futile. But we can learn, slowly perhaps
at first, to accept the turning of the year just as we accept the rising and
setting of the sun. They are the rhythms
of life, and those of death too.
Not clinging does not mean, however, that we can’t
celebrate. Let us enjoy this blaze of
glory for those precious moments that it is with us. It will be gone soon, which is all the more
reason to embrace and enjoy it now rather than simply skipping to mourn for
what will follow. The crown of autumn
may be fleeting but perhaps that is part of the challenge, part of the allure –
it makes us present to this very moment, these very weeks. We have to be present centred, not day
dreaming about our summer holidays or worrying about the festive season ahead –
the past and future are merely distractions that rob us of the jewels we
possess right now. Here. In this place. In this moment.
Gather these jewels whilst you can. Start a nature table, create an altar, give
over a shelf to celebrate and recognise autumn whilst she is with us. It doesn’t have to be big; I love the little
collection gathered in a bowl, as pictured, which a child put together during a
garden working party I attended last Saturday. Simply pick up tokens that catch your eye. Conkers, acorns and leaves are the obvious examples, but there is really no limit. The adventurous (and suitable knowledgeable) amongst us could forage for all edible items. Or if you can’t get out into nature, how about bringing to you by searching your books & the online world for evocative descriptions or amazing images? And please do share your collections, your creations, your responses, either on the A Life Of One’s Own Facebook page or using the hashtag #fourthquarter2015 on Twitter or Instagram. I’ll be adding further thoughts and (hopefully!) inspiration through those streams across the week ahead. I’d love you to share with us too.
Worship the amazingness that is the natural world in autumn. Be in awe of what is happening around us
right now, because before we know it, it will be gone – as surely as day is
followed by night, and life is followed by death.